Holidays (Other)

Is 2 Chronicles 7:14 God’s Promise to American Christians Today?

Originally published July 3, 2015

Is 2 Chronicles 7:14 God’s promise to American Christians today?

“if my people who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land.”
2 Chronicles 7:14

This verse is often quoted as a call to prayer and revival for American Christians, suggesting that if we pray, repent, and humble ourselves, God will turn America around and make it โ€œone nation under Godโ€ again. Since the 4th of July is coming up, you’ll probably be seeing this verse all over social media, but is it really a promise to us today about America?

Not this particular verse, no. Here’s why:

1. This verse is only part of a sentence (you can tell by the way it starts with a lowercase letter). In order to rightly handle God’s word (2 Timothy 2:15), it’s imperative that we consider a verse’s immediate context as well as the way it fits in with the big picture of the entire Bible. Even adding just verses 13 and 15 shows us that this verse was written about Old Testament Israel, not America. Reading all of chapter 7 sheds even more light on this verse, and if we throw in chapter 6, especially 6:26-31, we can clearly see that 7:14 is part of God’s specific answer to Solomon’s prayer at the dedication of the temple.

2. There are no supporting Scriptures in the New Testament (remember, Believers are in the church era under the new covenant of grace) that imply that if Christians humble themselves and repent that God will give them a nation governed by biblical laws and leaders and that we will have a society that behaves itself, morally. In fact, in the New Testament, in the early church, we see the exact opposite. The more the church prayed, humbled itself, and spread the gospel, the more Rome persecuted Christians. And yet, we never hear of them claiming 2 Chronicles 7:14 as Godโ€™s promise to them that He would turn things around if they would only humble themselves and seek His face more. The New Testament, even Jesus Himself, says that we will be persecuted for godly living (John 15:20, Matthew 10:22, 2 Timothy 3:12-13).

3. We canโ€™t claim the promise without claiming the punishment. Look again at verse 13. It specifies that pestilence and the agricultural hardships of drought and locust infestation are the ones that God promises to heal. It is a promise of literal healing of the land so that crops will grow unharmed, game will be plentiful, and people will be healthy and able to eat, not a promise of a metaphorical โ€œhealingโ€ of a nationโ€™s immorality.

If we claim that this โ€œhealing of the landโ€ applies to us today, then we also have to claim that God will punish our disobedience with those very things He promises to heal (drought, locusts, and pestilence), because thatโ€™s what these verses are talking about.

4. The reason this passage sounds like it applies to us is because there are some principles in this verse that do apply to us. How do we know? Because they are supported by other clear and direct Scriptures:

Are we Godโ€™s people who are called by His nameโ€? Yes (Acts 11:26)

Should we humble ourselves? Yes (1 Peter 5:6)

Should we pray and seek Godโ€™s face? Yes (1 Thessalonians 5:17)

Should we turn from any wicked ways we practice? Yes (Acts 3:19)

Will God hear from Heaven if we do these things? Yes (1 John 5:14-15)

Does God promise to heal our land of bad morals or the agricultural problems He has punished our disobedience with if we do these things? No.

Asking God to fulfill His promises and thanking Him for those already fulfilled is a wonderful and worshipful way to pray. But, if we truly want to pray โ€œin the name of Jesusโ€ and pray rightly for Godโ€™s will to be done, we must use wisdom, discernment, and the tools God has given us to discover exactly what He has promised us.


Additional Resources:

Properly Praying the Promises

What is the meaning of 2 Chronicles 7:14? at Got Questions?

Holidays (Other)

The Mailbag: Patriotism in Church

Every year near Independence Day, I re-run this article, and every year professing Christians actually get angry at me for suggesting that the weekly worship service should be reserved strictly for the worship of God. The One Who sent His only Son to be brutally tortured and crucified for our sins – that God. There are 168 hours in a week. If you can’t commit 1-2 of them solely to worshiping the God who saved you, check your heart. You might be guilty of idolatry.

Originally published July 2, 2018

Every year on the Sunday closest to the 4th of July, our worship service turns very patriotic. All of the hymns and worship songs are replaced with patriotic songs like God Bless America, America the Beautiful, and the National Anthem. The choir and whoever is singing a solo that day sings a patriotic song. A color guard marches in with the American flag and we say the Pledge of Allegiance. Sometimes the sermon is even on a patriotic topic. It makes me uncomfortable because I think the worship service should focus on God, not America. What do you think?

Independence Day is one of my favorite holidays. I love the fireworks and picnics, the bands, and watching my favorite musical, Yankee Doodle Dandy.

I’m as red, white, and blue, rah rah America as the next guy, but there’s a time and a place for all that, and the Sunday morning worship hour isn’t it. You’re correct. The worship service is exactly that: worship and service. And who are Christians supposed to worship and serve when we go to church? God.

We are to sing to, and about, God. The pastor is to preach the Word of God. We pledge our allegiance in prayer, worship, and confession to God. Our thoughts are to be focused on God. Every element of the worship service – songs, symbols, readings, offerings, prayer, praise, everything – is to draw our attention to God. He is the only One worthy of our worship.

Patriotic songs, the Pledge, and all of those other things can take the focus off God and put it on something lesser. Sometimes God gets pushed aside in favor of what we want to focus on. That’s a very man-centered attitude in the very place and time when everything is supposed to be centered on God.

And really, if you think about the main reason America was founded – freedom of worship – what better way is there to honor our forefathers and celebrate the gift of freedom God has given us than to exercise our First Amendment right to worship God? Certainly, we could use the 4th of July as a reminder to take some time in corporate prayer to express gratitude to God for our country and our liberties and to pray for our country. Scripture tells us to present our requests to God with thanksgiving. We could also dedicate some time to praying for our governmental officials as 1 Timothy 2:1-4 instructs us to do. There’s a biblical, worshipful way to be thankful for the freedoms God has blessed us with and intercede for our country and our governing authorities. And it shouldn’t be limited to one Sunday a year.

But when it comes to patriotic hoopla, we can set aside another time for that and still celebrate with our brothers and sisters in Christ. If your church family wants to celebrate America’s birthday together, that’s great! Have a church-wide cookout on the 4th. Schedule an Independence Day patriotic sing-along or choir pageant. Meet up and head out to the county fireworks show together. Fellowship! Have fun!

But when it’s time to worship, let’s make sure we’re reserving that time for worship of the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. It’s fine to love America, but let’s demonstrate that we love Christ more by not letting anything take His place in His church.

It’s fine to love America, but let’s demonstrate that we love Christ more by not letting anything take His place in His church.

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If you have a question about: a Bible passage, an aspect of theology, a current issue in Christianity, or how to biblically handle a family, life, or church situation, comment below (Iโ€™ll hold all questions in queue {unpublished} for a future edition of The Mailbag) or send me an e-mail or private message. If your question is chosen for publication, your anonymity will be protected.

Parenting, Poetry

The Prodigal’s Mom

Originally published August 3, 2021

For all the moms of prodigals…

Thereโ€™s an empty chair at the table
Where my child once used to sit
When we all broke bread together
A family whole and fit

Thereโ€™s an empty place in the photo
As his siblings celebrate
Without him again, missing him in
The memories they create

Thereโ€™s an empty stocking at Christmas
Another year far from home
Joy with tarnished edges
As the wayward one still roams

Thereโ€™s an empty place in my heart
That longs to be peaceful, content
Praying my child heeds the call of Christ
But fearing heโ€™ll never repent

And so goes the song - it goes on and on -
Of a godly motherโ€™s heart
Lifeโ€™s full of empty moments
Her prodigalโ€™s sin imparts

Until our knees and hearts are raw
We pray and pray again
A thousand tears we offer up
โ€œHow long, O Lord?โ€ and โ€œWhen?โ€

And the Father who once welcomed us home 
- For we were His prodigals too -
Says, โ€œCome and rest, and stand the test,
My grace is sufficient for you.โ€

Answering a Fool, Complementarianism, Mailbag

The Mailbag: Answering a Fool #6

Answer a fool according to his folly,
lest he be wise in his own eyes.

Proverbs 26:5

There’s a lot of foolishness masquerading as Christianity these days. Occasionally, I get e-mails and messages showcasing this type of foolishness. It needs to be biblically corrected so these folks can stop “being wise in their own eyes,” repent, and believe and practice the truth of Scripture. From time to time, I share those e-mails in The Mailbag with a biblical corrective, not only so the e-mail writer can be admonished by Scripture, but to provide you with Scriptures and reasoning you can use if you’re ever confronted with this kind of foolishness.

To answer a fool according to his folly (or in the case of most of the foolishness addressed to me – a professing Christian acting the fool by spouting unbiblical folly) is to stand toe to toe with him and firmly and biblically address his unbiblical foolishness without backing down or letting him run roughshod over you – sometimes even mirroring his own words back to him to help him see his hypocrisy.

Some Christians think holding your ground, refusing to compromise on biblical truth, and offering correction in this way is unkind or unloving. It is not. Not if you’re going by the Bible’s definition of love rather than the world’s definition (“be nice” “accept everything” “don’t confront”), and not when you’re dealing with a pridefully stubborn person. One of the most unloving things a Christian can do is to see a professing brother or sister in biblical error and ignore it rather than trying to help that person see the truth of God’s Word. Jesus, Paul, Peter, Jude, John, Jeremiah, Isaiah, and many others, did this plenty of times in Scripture, and, often, much more stringently than I and other 21st century Christians do. Sometimes love – real, biblical love – has to be tough in order to reach someone’s heart.

You can read more in the “Answering a Fool” series here.


The following comment was left in response to last week’s Mailbag article, The Mailbag: I Have to Preach Because No Man Will Step Up. I’ve posted the comment in its entirety below, then broken down into manageable parts with my responses. Buckle up.๐Ÿ˜€


As a believer who has witnessed woman step up in communities all over the world, where no man would to share the Gospel, and lead their community towards Christ (even when their life was at risk), I would argue that she ought to continue preaching. It is one thing to flaunt a leadership position as if women are better than men (and the same would be wrong if a man claimed he was better than a woman). Because at the end of the day, the role is for the called, man or woman. If you research on missionaries of the past, hundreds of people have been saved by women. Are you claiming none of those women should have followed the great commission commanded to ALL believers in Matthew 28 and that all those lives they pointed to Christ werenโ€™t worth it? Paul even asks in Romans 10:14-15, how people are to be saved if no one goes to share the Gospel with them.

Arguments like these are the reason we have prideful men in the Church who take roles theyโ€™re not called for and we have obedient women trying to ignore the calling God gave them in fear of judgement from their own community. I am not a feminist in any sense, but when it comes to silencing ANY believer from sharing the love and truth of Christ (man or woman) I cannot sit back and watch the Church divide itself on things that have nothing to do with salvation.

You want to discuss sin? What about the leaders that are liars, jealous, prideful, lustful, and gossipers? What about the pastors that preach love and compassion and go home to abuse their family? Because Iโ€™ve seen men and women do that in those roles. Itโ€™s not a discussion of whether it be man or woman. It should be a decision based a spirit-led calling.

More so, what is the significant of a claim like this? To bring down Christ followers from living how Jesus called us to? Because thatโ€™s all youโ€™re doing when you rather have a community have no one leading them to Jesus over someone who isnโ€™t afraid to obey just because theyโ€™re a woman.


As a believer who has witnessed woman (sic) step up in communities all over the world, where no man would to share the Gospel, and lead their community towards Christ (even when their life was at risk), I would argue that she ought to continue preaching. 

You can argue that, but itโ€™s an ungodly, unbiblical, worldly argument based solely on your fleshly human desires. It is not based on Scripture, which explains God’s desires to us. If youโ€™re a Christian, Godโ€™s Word is your authority for life and doctrine, not your opinions. If youโ€™re a Christian, youโ€™re a slave of Christ, and youโ€™re not entitled to any thought, opinion, belief, position, or worldview other than your Masterโ€™s. And if you think you are, Iโ€™d be very interested to hear you argue that

at the end of the day, the role is for the called, man or woman.

Youโ€™re half right, here. The role of pastor, and the function of pastor (preaching) is for the called. God does the calling, and He only calls biblically qualified men through the qualifications He has enumerated in His Word. He has already told us this in Scripture, and Scripture is our authority, not some subjective, extra-biblical feeling that God is โ€œcallingโ€ you. And again, this is your ungodly, unbiblical, worldly argument based solely on your fleshly human desires. It is not a biblical argument.

If you research on missionaries of the past

โ€œMIssionaries of the pastโ€ (or present or future) are not our authority, or any sort of basis for making decisions or formulating doctrine. Scripture is. Directing someone to look to โ€œmissionaries of the pastโ€ is to say, โ€œHey, you need to look to broken, sinful human beings to figure out how to do Christianity instead of looking to Christ and His Word.โ€.

hundreds of people have been saved by women

Nope. Not one single, solitary person has ever been saved by a woman. Or a man. And if you think anyone ever has, you do not know the gospel. God alone is the only One who has ever saved anyone.

And honestly, using this phraseology really decreases your credibility to address this or any other biblical topic. This is not how mature Christians who know their Bibles and are equipped to engage on these topics frame things.

But if what you actually mean by โ€œsaved by womenโ€ is that people have gotten saved (by Christ) because a woman shared the gospel with them, of course thatโ€™s true, and I daresay that itโ€™s been way more than โ€œhundredsโ€ of people over the last 2000 years.

But, so what? That has nothing to do with the topic at hand.

If youโ€™re talking about women sharing the gospel with the lost, thatโ€™s called evangelism.

You’re conflating evangelism with pastoring and preaching. Evangelism is sharing the gospel with lost people outside the church, which all Christians are commanded to do. Pastoring and preaching is biblical instruction to saved people inside the church, which God has restricted to biblically qualified men. Evangelism and pastoring/preaching are two completely different, separate things. We have to keep our biblical categories straight.

Evangelism is a completely separate topic from what weโ€™re talking about here, which is women โ€œpastoring,โ€ preaching, teaching men the Bible, and exercising authority over men in the gathering of the Body. Letโ€™s stay on topic.

(For more information on the false conflation of evangelism and pastoring/preaching: Women Preaching the Gospel? at A Word Fitly Spoken)

Are you claiming none of those women should have followed the great commission commanded to ALL believers in Matthew 28

Not at all. All Believers are to carry out the Great Commission. Christian women have been obeying that command -without pretending to be โ€œpastorsโ€ or preaching- for the past 2000 years. You donโ€™t have to be a pastor or preach to share the gospel.

One of the primary ways women have historically fulfilled the Great Commission is by pouring the gospel into their children and grandchildren. (Lois and Eunice are a wonderful biblical example to us of this.) This is also why I said earlier that far more than โ€œhundredsโ€ have come to Christ because a woman -their mother- shared the gospel with them. Itโ€™s certainly not the only way women can share the gospel, but I feel confident that itโ€™s the primary way.

In fact, women can share the gospel in any way except being a pastor or preaching (or violating any other Scriptures). They can even be missionaries and share the gospel with the lost – men and women – one on one or in any other way that doesnโ€™t violate 1 Timothy 2:11-3:7, Titus 1:5-9, or any other Scripture. I have personal friends who are women who have done just that. I, myself, went on a short term mission trip many years ago and did just that.

Again, you need to learn the difference between evangelism and pastoring/preaching and stop conflating the two.

and that all those lives they pointed to Christ werenโ€™t worth it?

Are you saying itโ€™s only โ€œworth itโ€ or only fulfills the Great Commission if a woman is a โ€œpastorโ€ or preaches to men? Is it not โ€œworth itโ€ if a woman pours the gospel into her children? Shares the gospel with a girlfriend over coffee? Hands a tract to the man ahead of her in the check out line?

And again, the Christianโ€™s measuring stick is rightly handled, in context Scripture, not a sinful human beingโ€™s subjective evaluation of whether or not something is โ€œworth itโ€. You are not qualified to make a Christian argument on this or any other biblical topic until you learn and submit to the doctrine of the authority of Scripture. Right now, youโ€™re trying to remove what you think is a speck in my eye, while the log of biblical illiteracy is protruding far out of your own.

Paul even asks in Romans 10:14-15, how people are to be saved if no one goes to share the Gospel with them.

How then will they call on Him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how will they hear without a preacher? And how will they preach unless they are sent? Just as it is written, โ€œHow beautiful are the feet of those who proclaim good news of good things!โ€

Romans 10:14-15

He says, โ€œHow will they hear without a preacher, and how will they preach unless they are sent?โ€. 

You do know that God is the author of Scripture, right? And that God doesnโ€™t contradict Himself, so His written Word doesnโ€™t contradict itself, because God is not a liar?

God cannot (not just โ€œdoes not,โ€ but โ€œcannot,โ€ because He cannot lie) say something in Romans that contradicts what He says in 1 Timothy. (And not only that, Paul is the human writer of both Romans and 1 Timothy, and heโ€™s not contradicting himself in these passages either.)

In 1 Timothy, God forbids women from pastoring, preaching, teaching the Bible to men, and holding authority over men in the gathering of the Body. So we donโ€™t even have to read the Romans passage to know – beyond any doubt – that the Romans passage does not allow women to do those things.

Any time the Bible talks about preachers and preaching, it is talking about men. God doesnโ€™t call or send women to preach. Women can share the gospel without preaching or being pastors.

Arguments like these are the reason we have prideful men in the Church who take roles theyโ€™re not called for 

No, ignorance of and rebellion against Scripture -which youโ€™ve amply demonstrated in your comment- are why we have those things.

Pride is a sin for both men and women. Anyone who commits the sin of pride needs to repent.

Men โ€œwho take roles theyโ€™re not called forโ€. I can only assume that by this you mean โ€œmen serving as pastors who shouldnโ€™t be pastorsโ€. Your (or anyone else’s) worldly, fleshly feelings and opinions are not the standard by which a man is determined to be fit for (โ€œcalledโ€ to) the pastorate (thatโ€™s unbiblical judgment, and a violation of Matthew 7:1), Scripture is, primarily 1 Timothy 3:1-7 and Titus 1:5-9.

and we have obedient women trying to ignore the calling God gave them in fear of judgement from their own community.

Iโ€™m sorry, but do you actually hear yourself saying this?

Women who defy Godโ€™s commands in His written Word are not obedient And they should be fearful of God’s judgment.

Christians who who rightly judge things according to properly handled Scripture are obeying Scripture. Professing Christians who argue for the defiance of Scripture and then denigrate Christians who are obeying Scripture are the ones who are unbiblically judging in violation of Matthew 7:1

I am not a feminist in any sense,

Yes, you are. You may not realize it, but the unbiblical position youโ€™ve taken on this issue wouldnโ€™t exist if it werent for feminism. So, at the very least, you are feminist in that sense. Youโ€™re holding a feminist position while claiming not to be a feminist, just like youโ€™re claiming to be a Christian while standing in defiance of Christ and His Word.

but when it comes to silencing ANY believer from sharing the love and truth of Christ (man or woman) I cannot sit back 

Iโ€™m a woman and Iโ€™m sharing the love and truth of Christ, and youโ€™re trying to silence me. More Matthew 7:1-5 hypocrisy. How about not โ€œsitting backโ€ against yourself?

If you think that women not being allowed to pastor and preach is โ€œsilencing women,โ€ then youโ€™re accusing God of silencing women. He is the One who issued the command, not me or any other Christian. All weโ€™re doing is repeating what His Word has said for the last 2000 years. Your argument is with Him, not us.

and watch the Church divide itself on things that have nothing to do with salvation.

So youโ€™d say itโ€™s OK for homosexuals and โ€œtransโ€ people and rapists and child abusers to be pastors, right? To your way of thinking, those things โ€œhave nothing to do with salvationโ€ either.

I promise, I am saying this as gently and kindly as I possibly can, but you need to hear this, and I would not be loving you biblically if I didnโ€™t say it:

You do not know your Bible. You donโ€™t know what youโ€™re talking about. And as someone who doesnโ€™t know her Bible you are not qualified to weigh in on this issue or assume the lofty position of, โ€œI have to proclaim this โ€˜truthโ€™ for the good of the church at large.โ€. Talk about โ€œpridefully taking a role youโ€™re not called forโ€!

You want to discuss sin?

We are discussing sin. Women defying Scripture by pretending to be pastors, preaching, teaching the Bible to men, and exercising authority over men in the gathering of the Body is sin.

Iโ€™m standing on Godโ€™s Word and arguing against that sin, Youโ€™re standing against Godโ€™s Word and arguing for that sin.

What about the leaders that are liars, jealous, prideful, lustful, and gossipers? What about the pastors that preach love and compassion and go home to abuse their family? Because Iโ€™ve seen men and women do that in those roles.

What about it? This is a deflection and a red herring, not a biblical argument. 

This โ€œargumentโ€ is like saying, โ€œYou want to discuss the sin of rape? What about bank robbers? What about murderers? What about kidnaping? What about lying?โ€. The Bible never teaches us we should ignore one sin simply because a thousand other sins exist.

All of the sins youโ€™ve listed should be dealt with biblically and so should the sin of women defying Godโ€™s command against women โ€œpastoringโ€ and preaching. Itโ€™s not like weโ€™re limited in the number of sins we can biblically address.

Itโ€™s not a discussion of whether it be man or woman.

Correct. God said itโ€™s to be a biblically qualified man. End of discussion.

It should be a decision based a spirit-led calling.

Correct. The Holy Spirit calls only biblically qualified men, only through His breathed out written Word.

More so, what is the significant (sic) of a claim like this? To bring down Christ followers from living how Jesus called us to?

No, to bring Christ followers up to living as Jesus called us to. Youโ€™re the one pushing Christ followers away from living as Jesus called us to because youโ€™re encouraging them to defy Godโ€™s Word.

Because thatโ€™s all youโ€™re doing when you rather have a community have no one leading them to Jesus 

I nowhere suggested in that article that the โ€œcommunityโ€ that woman is pretending to โ€œpastorโ€ should have no one leading them to Jesus. I even explained how she and the other women could lead people to Jesus without disobeying Scripture.ย 

over someone who isnโ€™t afraid to obey just because theyโ€™re a woman.

One more time: A woman who defies Scripture by pretending to be a โ€œpastorโ€ IS NOT OBEYING GOD. She is sinning.

Iโ€™ve got one more thing to add, and if youโ€™ve made it this far, I really hope youโ€™ll stick with me and seriously consider this. People who are genuinely born again Believers – new creatures in Christ – are indwelt by the Holy Spirit and understand, embrace, submit to, love, and obey Godโ€™s written Word. But one of the fruits of false converts – people who think theyโ€™re saved, but have never truly repented and believed the gospel – is that they reject, hate, fight against, disobey, and do not understand Godโ€™s written Word.

Because you have amply demonstrated that you do not know Godโ€™s Word and because every comment youโ€™ve made above has been a defiance of Godโ€™s Word, I fear for your eternity. I would urge and encourage you to do what 2 Corinthians 13:5 says, and examine yourself against Scripture to discover whether or not you are truly a Believer.

Repent, believe the gospel, and be set free of these unbiblical beliefs today.

Additional Resources:

Rock Your Role: Jill in the Pulpit

Counter Arguments to Egalitarianism


If you have a question about: a Bible passage, an aspect of theology, a current issue in Christianity, or how to biblically handle a family, life, or church situation, comment below (Iโ€™ll hold all questions in queue {unpublished} for a future edition of The Mailbag) or send me an e-mail or private message. If your question is chosen for publication, your anonymity will be protected.

Christian women, Parenting

Avoiding the Creepers: Six Ways to Raise a Biblically Strong Woman

Originally published May 15, 2015

If someone were to ask you, โ€œWhat kind of person do you want to raise your daughter to be?โ€ how would you answer? Caring? Independent? Loyal? Kind?

Iโ€™m betting none of us would answer โ€œweak,โ€ โ€œburdened with sins,โ€ โ€œeasily led astray by her passions,โ€ or โ€œunable to arrive at a knowledge of the truth.โ€ Yet in these last days in which we find ourselves, thatโ€™s exactly what many good-hearted Christian mothers with nothing but the best of intentions are raising their daughters to be. Itโ€™s not that they want their daughters to grow up to be spiritually weak or led astray by sin or unbiblical teaching, itโ€™s just that they lack the skills and tools necessary for properly training their daughters in the Scriptures and godliness.

Maybe youโ€™re one of those moms. You want to train your daughter to be a wise, godly, discerning woman, but youโ€™re not quite sure how. Hey, we all have those areas of our lives that we need a little help with. As an older mom myself, maybe I can lend a hand.

My daughter is almost twenty, and while sheโ€™s nowhere near perfect, by the grace of God, she is a godly young lady. Looking back, there are many things my husband and I did wrong as parents. But God, in His mercy, covered our failures and saw all of us through as He taught us through His Word how to raise a biblically strong woman.

6 Ways to Raise a Biblically Strong Woman

1. Set an example.

Our daughters learn by watching us. Faithfully study your Bible, pray, attend church, obey Godโ€™s Word, submit to your husband, repent and ask forgiveness when you sin, and serve others and your church together.

2. Learn, and teach your daughter, good hermeneutics.

Hermeneutics is just a fancy word for rightly handling Godโ€™s word. Use a reliable Bible translation. Understand Scripture in its immediate and overall context. What was the authorโ€™s intended meaning, his audience, genre, and culture? Point your daughter to Christ as you study Godโ€™s Word together.

3. Find a doctrinally sound church, join it, and attend faithfully as a family.

Study Godโ€™s Word and compare everything thatโ€™s preached and taught to Scripture (in context). Does your churchโ€™s teaching line up? Then be committed to attending every single week, not just when you feel like it or when thereโ€™s nothing better to do. Instill in your daughter a love for, and a commitment to, the church.

4. Fight the fluff.

Unfortunately, many of the most popular preachers, teachers, and Christian authors (including womenโ€™s Bible study authors) teach and write things that may sound good and make us feel good, but are in direct conflict with Scripture. These are the very people Paul was speaking of in 2 Timothy 3. Teach your daughter to follow only trustworthy teachers whose theology is in line with Scripture.

5. Bring prayer and Scripture into every situation.

She canโ€™t find her favorite doll? Kids picking on her at school? She wants to wear clothes that barely cover her? Discuss what the Bible say about these things. Pray together about them. Lead your daughter into prayer and Scripture as part of daily life, and it will teach her that God is to have authority over every aspect of our lives and that we are to obey Him in all things.

6. Teach her how to share the gospel.

If youโ€™re not sure how to properly present the gospel to someone, learn. You canโ€™t lead your daughter to Christ if you canโ€™t share the gospel with her. If your daughter is already saved, make sure she knows how to correctly share the gospel with friends and loved ones. The Great Commission was the last instruction Christ gave us before leaving earth, and we are all to be about the business of carrying it out until He returns.

The 2 Timothy passage at the beginning of this article is our commission to guard our households against ungodly ways and people โ€“ even those who may falsely call themselves Christians โ€“ who might creep in and steal our daughtersโ€™ hearts and minds away from Christ. He has charged us to train them in godliness, and we must faithfully answer His call to raise wise, discerning, and biblically strong women of God.

What advice would you offer moms who want to raise
biblically strong women?


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