What would you think of a surgeon who forgot to take his scalpel to work one day and decided his pocketknife would be an adequate substitute? Or a chef who ran out of vanilla and figured peppermint extract would work just fine in its place? At the very least, youโd probably think he was being a little sloppy and careless – not putting enough thought into his work. At worst, he could injure, sicken, or kill somebody.
When it comes to our Christian vernacular, we need to make sure weโre using the right word for the right task. โWell, she knows what I meant,โ doesnโt cut it these days, as anyone on social media can attest. Sometimes, even as perfectly doctrinally sound Christians, we get a little sloppy with our phraseology, which can, at best, confuse people, and, at worst, defame God. We need to proactively think about the meanings of the words we use and be careful to say what we mean and mean what we say.
Letโs watch our language on these ten terms and phrases and determine to use more precise, God-exalting vocabulary instead:
1. Let or allow God toโฆ
When the doctrinally sound Christians I know say they need to โletโ or โallowโ God to do something in their lives, they donโt mean: โIโm in charge here, and I call the shots. God can only do what I, as the boss, deign to permit Him to do.โ What they mean is, โI need to stop doing things that are displeasing to God and obey His Word because He wants to grow me to greater Christlikeness.โ Unfortunately, one of the tenets of Word of Faith and New Apostolic Reformation false doctrine is that Christians are the ones in authority and that God can only do what we allow Him to do. Thatโs blasphemy, and not something we even want to hint at with careless wording. We need to make sure our words communicate that God is in charge and we are His humble servants.
More God-exalting: โI need to submit to Godโs will.โ โI need to make sure Iโm not standing in opposition to Godโs work in my life.โ
2. Accept Jesus or make Jesus Savior/Lord of your life
Again, โacceptโ and โmakeโ put us in the driverโs seat and leave Jesus a puppet who moves at our whim. Jesus is King. We do not accept Him, He graciously accepts us. We do not โmakeโ Him Savior or Lord. He already is Savior and Lord. We throw ourselves upon His mercy to save us and bow the knee to His Lordship.
More God-exalting: โAsk God to save you.โ โBelieve the gospel.โ
3. God said or told me; listen to God
Possibly the most prolific false teaching today is that God regularly speaks to individuals verbally, through dreams and visions, or through signs, outside of Scripture, about the mundane issues of life, despite the fact that God Himselfย tells us He doesn’t speak this way and that His written Word is sufficient for our every need.ย God speaks to us, and we hear Him, through His written Word, the Bible. When we talk about God speaking to us, we need to make sure weโre driving that idea home, not subtly reinforcing the false idea that God is speaking to us outside of Scripture.
More God-exalting:ย โGod tells us in Colossians 3:12โฆโ โThe Bible says in Proverbs 13:24…โ
4. God showed up
No, He didnโt. God has never – in the history of all eternity, nor in eternity yet to come – โshown up.โ When we say somebody โshowed up,โ the common understanding is that someone arrived on the scene who was not previously present. That has never been, and can never be, true of an eternal, omnipresent God. God has always been present everywhere. Sometimes whatโs actually happening when people say โGod showed upโ at church is that they had an emotional response to the music, or experienced a temporary worldy sorrowย over their sin. But when God really doesย seem to โshow up,โ whatโs usually the case is that we โshowed upโ by prayerfully preparing our hearts for worship, by responding in repentance to the conviction of the Holy Spirit, by taking joy in praising and thanking God, or that God answered prayer or allowed us to see His hand at work in a situation.
More God-exalting: โIt was a wonderful time of worship this morning!โ โThank you, God, for letting us see how Youโre working!โ
5. Tithes and offerings, or offerings over and above the tithe
Tithing, like making animal sacrifices or celebrating Israelโs various feasts and festivals, is an Old Testament law which Jesus fulfilled and is no longer binding on Christians. Godโs instruction to Christians about giving is found in 2 Corinthians 9:7. When we try to impose Old Testament law upon New Testament Christians, we are violating Godโs clear command that Christians are not to give under compulsion. On the other side of the coin (pun intended) merely plunking ten per cent of your earnings into the offering plate voluntarily and thinking youโre good to go with God isnโt right either. We are to follow Christโs example of generosity and self-sacrifice as we minister to the church and others, giving up, if necessary, even our very lives.
More God-exalting: Offerings, gifts, generous giving, sacrificial giving
6. I have a peace about this
Often, this phrase reveals more than simple sloppy wording, it demonstrates that someone is relying more on her feelings, opinions, and experiences than on Godโs Word to determine right from wrong. If thereโs a Bible verse that tells us that a feeling of โpeaceโ is what unequivocally confirms that weโre obeying God, I havenโt run across it. Iโve heard women say they have โa peaceโ about leaving their husbands for sinful reasons, or that they have โa peaceโ about opting out of church when God clearly commands the opposite.ย The fact of the matter is that our feelings are deceptive. We can have peaceful feelings about things that are ungodly, and anxious feelings even when carrying out the clear commands of Scripture. Scripture is our measuring stick for right and wrong, godly and ungodly, not our feelings.
More God-exalting: โIโm going to obey Godโs Word and trust Him.โ
7. What do you feel God would have you do?
Christians are not supposed to live our lives guided by our feelings. We are to live lives governed by the authority of Godโs written Word. And itโs important that our vocabulary reflect that by being precise when weโre talking about making decisions. Our feelings are fleeting, fickle, and often false. Whatโs important – and what weโre to base all of our thoughts, words, and actions upon – is, โWhat does Scripture say about this?โ
More God-exalting: โWhat does the Bible say you should do?โ โLetโs pray and ask God for wisdom to rightly apply Scripture to this situation.โ
8. What is Godโs will for my life?
Frequently, when Christians ask this question, itโs in the context of making a life-altering decision about which college to attend or career to choose, whom to marry, and if, when, and how many children to have. But thatโs not what โGodโs willโ means as outlined by Scripture. Godโs will is for Christians to get up every day and walk in obedience to His Word. Thatโs it. Thatโs Godโs will for your life. When it comes to making decisions, we rightly apply Scripture to the situation, pray that God will give us wisdom and direction, and make the most godly decision we can, trusting that the God whoโs completely aware that weโre frail and by no means omniscient, will direct our paths.
More God-exalting: โHow can I walk in obedience to God today?โ โGod, please give me wisdom and direct my path in this situation.โ
9. God canโt ____ unless we ____.
I beg your pardon, but God can do whatever He wants to do (thatโs in keeping with His nature and character), and Heโs not sitting around wringing His hands, hoping weโll do the right thing so He can act. Thatโs a theology that makes man omnipotent and God impotent. Psalm 135:5-6 says it best: โFor I know that the Lord is great, and that our Lord is above all gods. Whatever the Lord pleases, He does, in heaven and on earth, in the seas and all the deeps.โ
More God-exalting: โThe Bible says in 1 John 1:9, if we ____, God will ___.โ
10. The Mormon church, the Roman Catholic church, a New Apostolic Reformation church, etc.
Itโs easy to fall into the habit of calling these religious organizations โchurchesโ because thatโs what they call themselves. But any gathering that doesnโt preach the biblical gospel is not a church, regardless of what the sign out front says. Human beings do not get to define what the church is. Only God gets to do that. And He has defined the churchย as Christโs body, whom He died for and saved, of whom He is Head, and who submits to Him. Organizations which stand in opposition to clear Scripture or preach another gospel are not churches (Galatians 1:6-9 says they are โaccursedโ or โdamnedโ), and verbal opposition to this misnomer would go a long way in helping to clarify that Mormons are not Christians, that Roman Catholic soteriology is not biblical, that Lakewood teaches false doctrine, and so on.
More God-exalting: Mormons, Catholicism, apostate church, organization, religion
What are some other โChristianeseโ words and phrases that need some cleaning up, and what are some other more precise and God-exalting terms we could use instead?


1. Mispronouncing or misspelling the names of false teachers being critiqued. The names that seem to give people the most trouble are Joel Osteen and Joyce Meyer. There is no โLโ in Osteen. It is not OLsteen or OLDsteen. It is pronounced OHโ-steen (also note the emphasis on the first syllable). Joyce Meyer does not have an โSโ on the end of her last name. It is Meyer, not MeyerS. When you mispronounce or misspell the name, it diminishes your credibility with followers of that teacher. People tend to think, โThis person doesnโt know what sheโs talking about. She hasnโt even done enough research to know what my favorite teacherโs actual name is.โ Hearing Scriptural truth about your idol is hard enough. Let’s be merciful and not make it any harder for people than we have to.
me of three year old little girls who have learned that if they turn on the tears and the puppy dog eyes, and burble with quivering lip, โThat huwt my feewings!โ when Mom disciplines them, that Mom will quickly change her mind about the punishment. 
truth and then attempt to use that “biblical truth” to correct others who disagree with them. You may be offended and strongly disagree with someone for calling your favorite preacher a false teacher, but your feelings and disagreement don’t mean that person is wrong. It could be that your opinion is what is unbiblical and that the other person is completely bibilically right in what she is saying. Or it could be another type of situation in which neither of you are wrong but that you’re coming at the issue from two different (yet biblical) perspectives, for example: grief over someone’s sin versus righteous anger over someone’s sin. As Christians, our feelings and opinions about things don’t really matter. We are slaves of Christ, so only our Master’s opinion matters. And His opinions are found in God’s written Word, not in our emotions. We mustย go to Scripture to determine what is right, godly, and good, and what is not.
9. Making every event into a huge, over the top experience. When I was a kid, Vacation Bible School was a Bible story and a few songs, a modest craft, and some cookies and Kool-Aid. No theme, no decorations, no ordering hundreds of dollars worth of junk from LifeWay. Now VBS is more like Six Flags over Jesus. For centuries, worship services took place without an elaborate set, theatrical lighting, and flashing everything up on a screen. Pastors somehow managed to preach without props, costumes, or references to the latest movie. Bible studies required only (gasp!) a Bible, not a workbook, a DVD, a web site, YouTube videos, four jillion different colored highlighters, a bachelor’s degree in hieroglyphics for margin markings, and the talent of Monet for Bible art journaling.
banging his head on his desk? I drive through that neighborhood a lot. “Ugh! I gave into temptationย AGAIN!” “I just repented of coveting yesterday, and here I am doing it again today!” “Why did I react to that situation with pride instead of humility? Iย know what Scripture says about that!” I see the goal – Christlikeness. I want to get there, but I know that’s not going to come to completion this side of Glory. And it drives me absolutely nuts.




