God’s Not Like “Whatever, Dude,” About The Way He’s Approached in Worship

Social media is a strange universe to live in. There’s a lot of stupidity, but there’s also a lot that can be learned from various trending issues.

Such was the case recently when Christian social media was up in arms (and rightly so) about Cory Asbury’s worship song Reckless Love, and whether or not churches should use it in their worship services. Discussion centered around the use of the word “reckless” to describe God’s love for us and whether or not that was a semantically and theologically appropriate adjective. “Relentless” was suggested as an alternative lyric. “Reckless” was defended as an appropriate lyric. And then Cory Asbury’s explanation of the song came to light and did further injury to his doctrinal cause.

It was all a very interesting and helpful discussion, but, to some degree, it was a rearranging of deck chairs on the Titanic.

‘Cause we’ve hit the ice berg, folks. And the ship is taking on water.

Focusing on the word “reckless” missed the point – at least the big picture point. You see, Reckless Love was produced by Bethel Music. And Cory Asbury is a “worship leader, songwriter and pastor” with the Bethel Music Collective. Prior to joining Bethel, he spent eight years as a worship leader with the International House of Prayer (IHOP).

Why is this important? Because Bethel “Church” in Redding, California, and IHOP are, functionally, ground zero for the New Apostolic Reformation heresy. Heresy. Not, “They just have a more expressive, contemporary style of worship,”. Not, “It’s a secondary theological issue we can agree to disagree on.” Heresy. Denial of the deity of Christ. Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. Demonstrably false prophecy that the head of IHOP, Mike Bickle, has publicly rejoiced in (He estimates that 80% of IHOP’s “prophecies” are false.) And that’s just the tip of our metaphorical ice berg when it comes to the NAR.

IHOP and Bethel are, by biblical definition, not Christian organizations and certainly not Christian churches. They are pagan centers of idol worship just as much as the Old Testament temples of Baal were. The only difference is that, instead of being creative and coming up with their own name for their god, they’ve stolen the name Jesus and blasphemously baptized their idol with that moniker.

The point in this whole debate is not the word “reckless”. The point is that Christian churches should not have anything whatsoever to do with idol worshiping pagans as they approach God in worship. Yet Sunday after Sunday churches use Bethel music, Jesus Culture music, Hillsong music, and the like, in their worship of God.

And it’s not just that churches are using music from the temples of Baal in their worship services. We have women who usurp the teaching and leadership roles in the church that God has reserved for men – many even going so far as to preach to men and/or hold the position of “pastor”. We have men setting themselves up as pastors who do not meet the Bible’s qualifications. We have churches that let anyone – Believer or not – participate in the Lord’s Supper. We have pastors who welcome false teachers and their materials into their churches with open arms and castigate anyone who dares point out the false doctrine being taught. We have preachers who have forsaken God’s mandate to preach the Word and use the sermon time to talk about themselves, deliver self-help tips, or perform a stand up comedy routine.

And everybody seems to think God’s up there in Heaven going, “Cool! Whatever y’all want to do in the name of worship is just fine and dandy with Me. You do you.”

Well, He’s not.

God demands – and has every right to do so – that He be approached properly. In reverence. In awe. In holy fear. With clean hands and a pure heart.

Who shall ascend the hill of the Lord?
And who shall stand in his holy place?
He who has clean hands and a pure heart,
who does not lift up his soul to what is false
and does not swear deceitfully.
He will receive blessing from the Lord
and righteousness from the God of his salvation.
Such is the generation of those who seek him,
who seek the face of the God of Jacob.
Psalm 24:3-6

Let’s take a stroll through Scripture and be taught by those who learned that lesson the hard way…


Most of the time, when we read the story of Cain and Abel, we focus on the fact that Cain killed his righteous brother. But we tend to gloss over the event that precipitated the murder. Cain and Abel both brought offerings to the Lord. God accepted Abel’s offering but rejected Cain’s.

Scripture doesn’t tell us why God found Cain’s offering unacceptable. The Levitical laws delineating offerings and sacrifices hadn’t yet been given, and even if they had, grain offerings and other offerings of vegetation were perfectly appropriate if offered at the right time and for the right reason. Was it because Cain had a wrong attitude or motive when he gave his offering? Or maybe because he offered God leftover produce instead of his firstfruits? We don’t know. What we do know is that God had a standard of how He was to be worshiped, Cain violated it, and God expressed His displeasure.

Aaron and Israel

It’s shortly after the Exodus. The Israelites have seen God perform ten – count them – ten plagues on Pharaoh for his idolatry and failure to bow the knee to God’s command to let Israel go. They saw God destroy the entire Egyptian army in the Red Sea. And now, their fearless leader, Moses, has trekked up Mount Sinai and is late getting back. The people are worried and restless.

Does Aaron lead them to pray? Trust God? Be patient? Nope. He fashions an idol for them – a golden calf. And if that wasn’t bad enough, he wasn’t even creative enough to come up with his own name for this idol. He stole God’s character and work and blasphemously baptized the idol with that moniker. He led the people to worship the false god as though it were the true God. (Does that ring any bells?)

“These are your gods, O Israel, who brought you up out of the land of Egypt!” When Aaron saw this, he built an altar before it. And Aaron made a proclamation and said, “Tomorrow shall be a feast to the Lord.” And they rose up early the next day and offered burnt offerings and brought peace offerings.

Surely God gave them a pass, right? I mean, Moses broke the tablets of the Ten Commandments when he came down from the mountain before they even had a chance to read the first and second Commandments that prohibited what they were doing.

Uh uh. God told Moses to get out of the way so He could fire bomb Israel off the face of the Earth and start over with him. It was only after Moses pleaded with God to stay His hand that God relented and allowed for the lesser punishment of having the Levites kill 3,000 of them with the sword and sent a plague on the rest of them.

Doesn’t exactly sound like an “anything goes in worship” kind of God, does He?

Nadab and Abihu

Now Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, each took his censer and put fire in it and laid incense on it and offered unauthorized fire before the Lord, which he had not commanded them. And fire came out from before the Lord and consumed them, and they died before the Lord. Then Moses said to Aaron, “This is what the Lord has said: ‘Among those who are near me I will be sanctified, and before all the people I will be glorified.’” And Aaron held his peace.

Are you seeing a pattern here? God is so not OK with people approaching Him irreverently, via idol worship, or in any other way He deems inappropriate that He’s willing to kill them.


God sends Saul and his army on a mission to defeat the Amalekites. His instructions are simple: completely destroy everything. “Do not spare them, but kill both man and woman, child and infant, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.”

But Saul’s a smart guy, see? He knows better. He goes in and destroys all the worthless stuff, but saves the good stuff for himself. It’ll be OK with God, he reasons, because he’s going to take some of the really nice sheep and make a big, showy sacrifice. Like a rich man pitching pennies to an urchin shoeshine boy.

And when Samuel confronts Saul about his rebellion, “Why then did you not obey the voice of the Lord? Why did you pounce on the spoil and do what was evil in the sight of the Lord?”, Saul has the temerity to say, “I have obeyed the voice of the Lord.” Because he was going to perform an act of worship. And the fact that he was doing it his way instead of God’s way didn’t matter. In Saul’s mind, it was the outward act that counted and God should have accepted it.

God didn’t see it that way:

And Samuel said,
“Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices,
as in obeying the voice of the Lord?
Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice,
and to listen than the fat of rams.
For rebellion is as the sin of divination,
and presumption is as iniquity and idolatry.
Because you have rejected the word of the Lord,
he has also rejected you from being king.”

God is not pleased with worship offered by hands dirtied with sin and rebellion. Saul paid the price: his throne and God’s favor.


Uzziah started off well as king of Judah. He listened to the counsel of Zechariah, obeyed God, and prospered. But after a while, prosperity can make you proud, and that’s just what happened to Uzziah.

He became so proud, in fact, that he took it upon himself to enter the sanctuary of the temple and offer incense to God on the altar. That was a position of leadership restricted to the priests. Uzziah had never been installed as a priest because he wasn’t biblically qualified to hold the office of priest, much like many who take on the role of pastor today.

Bravely, Azariah and eighty of his fellow priests stood up to the presumptuous king – at the risk of their lives, but in defense of proper worship as commanded in God’s Word – rebuked Uzziah, and kicked him out of the temple. “You have done wrong,” they said, “and it will bring you no honor from the Lord God.”

Well! Uzziah was hot with anger. How dare these mere priests stop him – the king whom God had blessed and prospered – from worshiping God any way he wanted to!

Guess who God sided with? The priests who were upholding His Word and His standard of worship. God struck Uzziah with leprosy for the remainder of his life, which exiled him from the palace and a royal burial, and effectively ended his reign.

The Pharisees

Hypocrites! Blind guides! Fools! Blind men! Greedy! Self-indulgent! Whitewashed tombs! Lawless! Serpents! Brood of vipers! Murderers!

How would you like to be dressed down like that by Jesus? You’re teaching the Scriptures. You’re tithing to the nth degree. You’re traveling over land and sea to proselytize. You’re behaving with outward righteousness. You’re memorializing the prophets. As far as you can tell, you’re doing pretty well with this holiness thing.

And here comes the Messiah – the One you’re (supposedly) doing all of this for – and He shames you. Publicly. He exposes your blackness of heart to the commoners you want looking up to you. All because God’s way is for you to worship Him in spirit and in truth, but you insist on doing it your way- for all your deeds to be seen by others, and because you love the place of honor at feasts and the best seats in the synagogues and greetings in the marketplaces and being called rabbi by others.

You’re approaching God in arrogance and selfishness, and He will have none of it. You won’t die to self, so He – if only temporarily – kills your pride.

The Corinthian Church

You’ve probably never seen a Lord’s Supper as messed up as the way the Corinthian church was doing it. Some people were going without while others were getting drunk. The “important” people got to go first while the poor and lower class went to the back of the line. People were using the Lord’s Table as an opportunity for selfishness rather than putting self aside and focusing on the fact that the purpose of this meal was to proclaim the Lord’s death until He comes.

That wasn’t acceptable to God. He didn’t want the church observing the Lord’s Supper just any old way. It was dishonoring to Christ and shameful to His church.

So God declared that “whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty concerning the body and blood of the Lord…For anyone who eats and drinks without discerning the body eats and drinks judgment on himself. That is why many of you are weak and ill, and some have died.”

“But all of that was back in Bible times!” you might protest. “God isn’t killing anybody these days for worshiping Him improperly. In fact, some of the worst violators of God’s Word are rich ‘Christian’ celebrities!”

That’s right, they are. Exactly like God said they would be: “teaching for shameful gain what they ought not to teach.” And woe betide them when they stand before Christ in judgment. Because judgment is coming for them:

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
Matthew 7:21-23

God is high and He is holy, and so are His standards for those who approach Him. He expects His people to obey His Word about how He is to be worshiped.

“I, the Lord, do not change,” God says in the Old Testament. The New Testament tells us, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” God hasn’t mellowed out or calmed down or gotten more tolerant. The God who poured out His wrath on those who blasphemed Him with unbiblical worship in the Old Testament is the same God we worship this side of the cross. Nothing escapes His notice. He doesn’t let sin slide. Whether in this life, or the next, or both, there will be a reckoning for unbiblical worship.

When it comes to worship, God is not a “whatever” kind of God.

Additional Resources:

Why Our Church No Longer Plays Bethel or Hillsong Music (or Elevation or Jesus Culture), and Neither Should Yours

Reckless Love, Reckless Theology at Matter of Theology

28 thoughts on “God’s Not Like “Whatever, Dude,” About The Way He’s Approached in Worship”

  1. This song has become the “latest & greatest” for our church & church district. I’ve had a discussion with the district superintendent’s wife & she was adamant it was fine. Other pastors wives have posted on Facebook giving it glowing recommendations. Most said they liked the tune & the words made them feel loved. Not one said it accurately reflected God, His love, or any other attributes. It was a song that made them feel good & special. When played at church & on recent women’s retreat I stayed silent & worshipped in that way.


  2. Hey Michelle. I thought i could add something to help. As far as it goes with Cain and Abel
    “3 And in the process of time it came to pass that Cain brought an offering of the fruit of the ground to the LORD.
    4 Abel also brought of the firstborn of his flock and of their fat. And the LORD respected Abel and his offering,
    5 but He did not respect Cain and his offering. And Cain was very angry, and his countenance fell”
    The Jewish tradition of this story is that while Abel gave the fat of the FIRST BORN of his flock, which is, later, what God would have Israel offer as an acceptable offering; Cain offered the FRUIT OF THE GROUND, not his first fruits (which is what God would ask for). Which would be giving God his leftovers; essentially, only tithing after he paid all his bills. This is why it wasn’t accepted or pleasing to God.

    Besides that though, may i ask, why you see Bethel and IHOP worship similar to the worship of Baal? I am missing the connection if you care to elaborate.


  3. Admittedly, I am sort of puzzled by this piece. Initially the focus is on a lyric in a song.
    Then the post focuses on an sub-culture. I am wondering whether a word – or a song – produced by any person/organization, is within itself spiritually relevant. LOTS of words have been created by “those without” – but we all use them in our standard English. So that is puzzling.

    However, this statement especially caught me –

    “IHOP and Bethel are, by biblical definition, not Christian organizations and certainly not Christian churches. ”

    Hmmmm….I wonder what exactly “the Biblical Definition” of a Christian organization or church is?? Who decides? How did they decide? Speaking to another portion in the piece – should a woman (rather than a man) be in a position to even speak to such a matter?? I would wonder whether I could assert that NO org or “church” qualified as Christian with a little effort.

    That being said – I am no fan of NAR – and despise the spiritual game playing that is endemic in that community – though not any less than of white American evangelicalism in general which has demonstrated that it more closely resembles a sewer rather than the light of the world…. Sad.


  4. Thank you for this, Michelle. Sadly this article encapsulates the majority of western evangelical churches, mine included. Those of us who know and hold to the truth are in the extreme minority. Shared this on Facebook. I hope many, many people will read your article!


  5. I really struggle with the worship at the church that I attend. There is a “worship” team and they pick the songs that we sing 100%. Most are the modern worship chorus’ And most repeat some portion of the song over and over with loud percussion. I have mentioned this to the pastor, but his wife is the worship leader so nothing is going to change. I long to hear something that could really lead us to worship. I have started sitting out in the foyer until the preaching starts, but I really don’t think it is good to do that.

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    1. It is comforting to know that others think as I do. I pray about this constantly. Church in US in dire need of new Reformation! We need to repent of or false worship and turn our hearts to the thrice holy God.

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  6. It is my belief worldly music is the number one tool Satan is using to destroy the church in America and the western world. Contemporary Christian music in general is the bridge from traditional worship to the emerging church and all kinds of heresy. Just research what it’s performers believe and it becomes clear. A few are even practicing homosexuals. Their music heroes are The Beatles and other rockers. If you think the worship of Hillsong, Saddleback, and Bethel are bad now take a look at this short video of Christian Death Metal bands. Yes, there is a genre of Christian music called Christian Death Metal. How much lower can Christendom sink? https://youtu.be/MBjWwzemnyE The word Christian has become meaningless in our time by such widespread apostasy.


  7. Good article Michelle Leslie. I find myself at a place in my walk with the Lord where I have chosen to come out of worldly churches. I pray and ask the Lord to show me His will if there is a church I am to be part of. So many people don’t come out of worldly churches for various reasons which need to be examined. As for my husband and myself we do not want to dishonor our Lord in any way.


    1. Hi Lynne- Thank you for your kind words.

      God has already shown you His will about being a member of a church. It’s in Hebrews 10:24-25. Christians are commanded to join with a local church. That is God’s will for all of us. It’s not optional.

      The challenge is finding a church that teaches sound doctrine. They’re harder to find these days, but they ARE out there. I would encourage you to go to the top of this page and click on the “Searching for a new church?” tab. There are lots of different resources there to help you find a good church. I’ve had many readers who used those resources and happily found a good church home. May God bless you with an awesome new church family as you seek to honor Him by obeying His Word! :0)


  8. Thank you Michelle for taking the time to address the real issue at hand. I’ve seen people argue back and forth regarding the song, “Reckless Love”, and nobody seems to recognize the real issue at hand, which is not the song at all, but where the song comes from. The fact that Cory Asbury is with Bethel Church now and put this song out with Bethel, along with his history at IHOPKC, cause me much greater concern than the misuse of some word in a lyric.


  9. It’s the old “frog in the frying pan” illustration, isn’t it? Allowing sin to enter a bit at a time? How often I’ve heard, “Oh Ellie, it’s a new world today!” or “You certainly can’t believe that women shouldn’t preach today, do you?” and on and on. (Or even worse, a certain woman usurping the pastor’s Scriptural guidelines – meaning God’s – as soon as the pastor leaves on vacation!) Your posts are so discerning and correctly based on Scripture every time! Thank you,

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  10. Pursuing truth carries the risk that revelations will not be pleasant, which seems to be the case here, for this tome offers little to gladden the heart. There is no joy in discovering the source of disconcerting social changes could well be a fatal incurable disease that condemns the whole of society. Despair is the overriding feeling that accompanies the belief that humanity is sinking into a new dark age.


  11. Excellent points! I’d like to add my frustration with MY church; a lack of reverence during communion. We used to all sit and pass the elements. Now we all get up, lined up to proceed to the front to take it from the pastor. The congregation has taken this to mean it’s visiting time while standing in line!

    While I’m trying to concentrate on the truly magnificent gift I’m about to partake of, and be sure my heart is where it needs to be, I am distracted by giggles and compliments on today’s outfit, invitations for lunch after service, catching up of the past week…REALLY?!?! That was why we had “stand up and greet your pew neighbor” BEFORE service began! And why we have “gather at the coffee table afterwards” time!!

    I do not think my pastor is truly aware of it, and I keep feeling like I’m blowing it out of proportion; being legalistic. So I hesitate to mention it. I feel like I’d be just another nuisance to the already time consuming, spiritually draining detritus one in Church service encounters. (OK, that comes from growing up in the church as an Elder/Deacon’s kid… I “got” to watch the sausage being made :/ I gotta still deal with that)

    Anyhoo- all this to say, I agree with you. Reverence and respect are not cool at The Church Of What’s Happening Now. Cuz it’s all about ME. And what I LIKE. And how great I’M gonna FEEL when I hear what I want. Cuz if I ain’t feelin it, it ain’t real…right??

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  12. I’m absolutely loving learning from your wisdom. I have been through all spectrums of the church and long deeply, (maybe due to age, or the craziness of this world), to soak in His presence and His Word and leave all the “modern” Christianity behind me. I am curious how I can bring this up in my marriage. I can’t quote without looking this up (poor memory) and I can’t share your post with him, can I? Don’t want YOU to be teaching my husband and break that command. I have come up with a plan to share your words and wisdom along with Scripture with my daughters. Pray that I still have influence over my 2 adult daughters as well. We had been a part of the CCM world, even as part of several praise teams. More than just that, but all false teachers, I read so many Priscilla, Lysa, etc books. I dont know how God opened my eyes, don’t even remember a moment, but I am SO glad He did. Any advice for me to shed some light for my husband?


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